Someone had an interesting thought for me over the weekend, and I thought I would share it with you today. “What if women and men could actually trade places with each other for one day?” In other words, men would have to see the world through a woman’s eyes and body and vice versa for women. Would it help to make them understand each other any better? Would a man understand the “emotional” aspect of women better if he actually lived and operated through her body for a full day? Would women learn just how much a man values his penis if they could just switch bodies with them for 24 hours? The reason I ask this is because I have heard so many different stories of how men and women actually “view relationships.” I often ask if they even “see the same things” when forming one. Most men are more “visual” when it comes to relationships. Looks are important to them, especially when starting out. However, what happens when those physical aspects start to change? Can men have the substance to just “love the personality that’s left?” A lot of women want to see how well a man can provide for himself or for them both. I can’t imagine many women who would voluntarily want a bum on a park bench. The man might have all the love in the world for the woman, but if he has “nothing to offer” then that might be a burden that most women would not want to take on. Do you think that would change if the woman could “trade places” with the bum just to see “how much” he really loves her? “Trading places” for a day might offer a different outlook (if it can be done). The question is “How can this possibly happen?” Well, I think I might have an answer. If you really want to know how your woman feels (and what makes her feel that way), then simply “talk” to her. While you may not be able to experience what she goes through “physically” you can at least get a better understanding through “proper communication.” Women can do the same things when it comes to men. You see, it shouldn’t have to take a “physical transformation” to switch places. Our problem is that we just don’t “communicate like we should.” By the way, “shouting” does “not” equate to communicating. When you shout, you are expressing emotion, but rarely are you listening to anyone. Men and women need each other to survive. If we all took that thought into consideration, then maybe we could treat each other better. NO man should ever “beat or hit” a woman… period. As long as he is able to “outrun” her, then he will always have the advantage. I hope that women will be able to understand that even though men like to be perceived as strong on the outside, we “all” have flaws. Some flaws are worse than others. If you take the time to fully “understand” your man then that will also help to make for a better relationship. ALL of this can be accomplished if both parties just “sit down and talk.” Yes, please do so “before” engaging in any sex, thank you… I thought this would be an interesting topic for today, so I hope you don’t mind me sharing it. Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought, and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.
Olivia Newton John, Brett Jolly and musical director Amy Skyy