Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“Glass half empty or half full?”)

We had a quick but hard thunderstorm here in Philadelphia. I was in my house when I heard the thunder ring loud. Then I heard the biggest crackling sound and I just knew something was wrong. For some reason I just felt as though something was about to fall on my house so I immediate got up to run to a more secure spot. My lights went out and I couldn’t see. I found my way outside to find this:


Needless to say a couple of things went through my mind. Here is the “half empty scenario:” I had no electricity. It would cost a lot of money to clear this tree off my property. It would probably be hours before the power got turned back on, thereby all the food in the refrigerator would probably be ruined. Also my bed ridden father was in the house and he can’t easily be moved in case of emergency. Now here is the “half full scenario:” The tree didn’t land on the house (or even me for that matter). The tree missed hitting my car by about 6 feet (and that would have been very catastrophic had that happened). It wasn’t that long at all before the power was restored and I am alive today to talk about this. As bad as this seemed at first, there was a blessing in all of this. Often we think of bad events in our lives and relate to them as though things are at the lowest point for us. There can be a blessing for you if you only “take the time to recognize it.” The fact that things actually “can be worse” should never be ignored. The impact of circumstances in your life depend on your perceptions of those circumstances. You can see the worst in everything if you so choose, or you can look for the light within a bad situation. If you have a roof over your head and are at least able to think, breathe and move on your own today then you have an advantage over someone else in this world who would love to trade places with you. There’s nothing wrong with being thankful for the things you still have, because there is no guarantee that it will last forever. To sum it all up in a 2 word sentence, I will simply say this: “Be blessed…” Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought, and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.


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Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“The greatest television show theme music ever?”)

Someone asked me which program I thought had the greatest theme song (musically in terms of orchestration, arrangement and quality or writing). There were a number of program themes (mostly from many years ago) that I felt deserved consideration. I listened to the ones that I knew of (even though there may be other themes that I have not encountered yet). I just know that whoever wrote this particular theme music was a “great” songwriter. From what I heard, everything on this track was awesome, so if I had to choose today, “This” would be my consideration as the best television theme show music “ever.” I welcome any and all opposing point of view. Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought, and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.

Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“Are we too busy to notice life?”)

If you notice, most of our lives are dedicated to accomplishing objectives each day. We wake up, we need to fix something to eat before we leave the house. We rush to get there on time, then we fulfill our obligations up to the point where it is time to take a break. Then we adhere to another time schedule to go back to our obligation until it is time to go back home. Then we have other things to do once we get back there. We are a people with so much to do that we can’t find time to “take in life.” Pressure mounts whenever we place emphasis on accomplishing something “by a certain time.” For many of us this is stress that is “self imposed.” For instance, are you one of those people who (whenever you are running late for something) always looks at your watch while trying to reach your destination? If you are already rushing to get there fast, then what purpose does it serve to continually check the time? Will taking note of the time help you to get there any faster? Of course not, but this is a prime example of how we add stress to our own lives. Do you find that you often worry about things that could possibly transpire “but have not happened yet?” When you always “ponder the worst” then you are contributing to your own anxiety or depression. While everyone goes through some type of stress at points in their lives, it is the “amount” of stress that can effect you and can even change you. For many people 9 to 5 jobs exhibit performance measures. In most of these occupations you have things you need to get done (and finish them by a certain time). Depending on the amount of work you do it could all have an effect on your health, your looks and your peace of mind. Whenever I am near an ocean, I love to just stand in front of the tide and just let my mind go. It relaxes me and it lets me know that there is more to this planet than just my responsibilities. I also get the same exuberance when I take a walk at night and gaze up into the stars. There is so much more to this universe but you will  never know if you don’t take a moment to breathe and take it all in. When you have a lot of responsibilities it will weigh in on you in one way of another. Take period moments to get out of your box and explore the things you never noticed before. Be at peace with yourself by not allowing your circumstances to get the best of you. Whenever I see faces of people in early morning rush hour traffic none of them looks happy. That’s because they have things to do and time deadlines to meet. Most of them don’t have time or desire to even smile. Make some time to marvel at life and bring an inner peace to yourself.. I honestly think in the long run you will be glad you did… Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought, and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.


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Harold Melvin’s Bluenotes (“Wake up everybody”) in concert with Brett Jolly on bass guitar


Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“Will they ever get Bill Cosby?”)

This past weekend Bill Cosby’s court ordeal ended up in a mistrial. The jurors couldn’t come together on a unanimous verdict over his innocence or guilt. For those of you who don’t know this story, Mr. Cosby was brought up on charges of drugging and sexually violating a woman (Andrea Constand) at his suburban home in 2004. There are over 60 other cases of different women claiming that Cosby did the same thing to them (however the statute of limitations ran out on the others so they can not prosecute). I talked to several people about this trial and found lots of different opinions. Let’s take a look at some points: First, if Cosby had actually done the things that she claimed he did, then “why on earth” would she revisit him and even remain friends with him after that? Just that fact alone has me scratching my head. Let me give you a similar scenario: If you put your hand in the lion’s cage and he bites it, that would be terrible. However, should it be the lion’s fault if you go back and do the exact same thing again? Please don’t think that I am taking up for Cosby, because I am not. However, this doesn’t make sense to me. Also the fact that she claimed to be sure of a lot of things in her testimony, but her current  testimony contradicted earlier testimonies. When you add in the fact that it took her so long to press charges it all adds up to “uncertainty” and most times in court uncertainty won’t cut it.  If she has problems remembering some things, then how will we know that she doesn’t have problems remembering “most” things? In a court of law, lawyers will “pounce” on uncertainty. If they can poke holes in your testimony then what you say may actually help their case. I don’t know if Cosby will be found guilty in a second trial or not, but I do know that he is a tremendously popular figure who has had a great positive image for most of his career. Also, he is rich and can afford the best lawyers to help him. However, none of this means that he is innocent, and people need to realize that there is a big difference between being innocent and “Not being proven guilty.” When you have no proof other than your own words then you need to be “very convincing” to get a conviction. Personally, if over 60 women all claimed that Cosby drugged and violated them then I myself would tend to believe that he is guilty. However, even if I thought that way I would still not convict him of anything without “absolute” proof (and that might be the weakest part of the prosecutor’s agenda). Obviously sex happened. The real question is whether it was voluntary or not. I don’t believe it was (and I doubt anyone else believes it either). If they try to retry this case they will need to do better in presenting facts and details. Right now with what they have it just doesn’t seem like it’s enough to convict him. I would not support anyone who abuses or violates women, but everyone is entitled to a fair trial based on the evidence against him or her. Should they retry Cosby? In my opinion I think this original trial was the best shot that they had. I just can’t imagine them doing any better in presenting their case a second time. It could happen, but unless some new evidence comes up I just can’t see it. Cosby’s positive image may now be tainted, but I just don’t think there is enough evidence to send him to jail.  That is just my opinion. Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.


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Freddie Jackson in concert with Brett Jolly on bass

Freddie Jackson

Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“Father’s Day was yesterday”)

Father’s day is an annual tradition here in the US, and many of us paid homage to fathers. Just like the mothers, fathers should also be acknowledged for their contributions to raising children. However, what of those males who are not actively involved in their children’s lives? Should they also be acknowledged? To me the answer is simple: “Hell no!” Bringing a child into this world doesn’t make you a father. It makes you a donor. Being a father doesn’t just start with or end with birth. While the love of a mother is precious the strength of a father is so necessary for a child to proper in life. Many mothers have had to play the role of father due to absence in their child’s life and I think those women deserve to celebrate “Father’s day” as well. So why would any father “not” want to participate in his child’s life? I could think of a couple of things: “pressure, insecurity, abusive traits, common sense, lack of love and more.” None of these are acceptable. When a father lacks love for his child it is never a reflection on the child. It is a reflection on the parent. I personally know of a man who has 19 kids (most with different women). He claims to love his kids (and it is possible that he does love them) but he has put them in situations where he cannot provide anything for them. What can you say to a man who has 19 kids with no steady income and no means to provide? “Not much.” Father’s day should be about those who will contribute lovingly to the children they brought into the world. If you don’t love your child then there is something “seriously wrong with you.” We all know this world is not perfect.  There are people who don’t understand what life truly entails. They think of themselves and nothing more. Your child needs you. Excuses don’t cut it.  To all the fathers who express awesome love for their children (and to all those mothers out there who play both roles so well in raising their children) I hope you all had a prosperous  and well deserved “Father’s day.” For the rest of you “it isn’t too late.” It’s not about where you come from, but where you are headed that determines true value. Make up for lost time, and find a way to hug your child today. I thanked my own father (Elton Jolly) for all he has done for me. He stepped up. Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.


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Actress Holly Robinson-Peete and Brett Jolly


Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“Red bass guitar photo shoot with Kia”)

Kia is a singer who is looking to broaden her career. She needed some pictures done and we picked a great day for shooting. She had a fun time and hopefully we can do more sessions. Hope you enjoy her pictures. Thanks for checking out my Daily Thought and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.



Brett Jolly’s Daily Thought (“The masks of musicians/performers”)

As entertainers we are often expected to bring smiles to the faces of those who are there to see us. Often we ourselves have to smile no matter what we may feel or what we have been through in our own lives. There have been several times when things were not going well for me but yet I still had to act onstage as though all was perfect. Last night at my Wednesday night event “the show had to go on” despite the fact that one of our best patrons and supporters lost her battle to cancer. Renee Adams was a female bass player. She loved to come to our events and often I would  get a break every time she came up to play. She had cancer, and not too long ago she said that she felt pain free. She felt vibrant and energetic, and she was thankful for feeling as though she was beating the disease. Then her absence became more prominent. This was our indication that it had come back. We all wished the best for her and wanted her to get well. Yesterday morning she passed, and her family came out to our event last night. It was a touching moment. Normally we are always so upbeat whenever we have our events (and yesterday we were still upbeat, but the spirit just wasn’t the same). We played well. We inspired the crowd. However, when her husband brought her bass along with her guitar stand and placed it onstage with us it was a very heartfelt moment.  At the end of the night we performed her favorite song to play, and that was “Boogie Oogie Oogie” by “A Taste of Honey.” Yes, people loved last night. It was emotional but so successful. Another musician friend of ours was there last night, and he had narrowly escaped death when he was hit from behind on his motorcycle by someone traveling 60 miles per hour. His name was Cornell Tubbs. He lost an eye socket, his rib cage, usage of his leg and so many other damages that it was tough to count. He barely made it, but he did pull through (and he made it there last night). Us musicians/entertainers often have to wear “masks” for the public, but we are just as human as everyone else. We feel pain, and we experience tragedies. The good part about what we do is that many of us can escape the bad things we feel by performing onstage. Michael Jackson once said that it is the greatest feeling in the world. I think I would have to agree with him. It isn’t always easy to entertain others while your own world is feeling hurt, but that is what we have to do. Today’s Daily Thought is designed to enlighten you to the realness of what we do. Thank you for checking out my Daily Thought, and as always I wish you the very best that life has to offer.


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RIP Renee Adams